I moved all over the US and was scared to put down roots anywhere. Living with my sister showed me that having a home base is good.

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I moved all over the US and was scared to put down roots anywhere. Living with my sister showed me that having a home base is good.

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I've moved countless times across the States throughout my adult life.As a writer, I thought the concept of home was abrasive to my creative practice. I moved to New York with my sister, and ...

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