To The Moon

Had lunch with a friend yesterday. On IG, he looks like he’s made it—no 9-to-6, posting late-night US market wins, living that “financial freedom” life. I thought he cracked the code. He didn’t. He’s actually scared. He just turned 28 and said something that stuck with me: “I’m winning in the market, but losing in life.” 🚀 The Windfall That Changed Everything Three years ago, he was a fresh grad at a local bank. Started dabbling in Nvidia, IONQ, and Coherent, mixing in options and crypto. Within two years, he pulled off a high six-figure run. That kind of money, that fast, rewires your brain. One green candle out-earned his entire monthly salary. Naturally, he thought: “Why grind for peanuts?” So he quit. Went full-time. Selling covered calls for “passive income.” 🍱 The “GrabFood & Gaming” Loop Fast forward 1.5 years—his life runs on repeat: Wake up → check US pre-market → Valorant or Genshin → order GrabFood Eat → scroll → nap → wake for NY open → trade → game again Sleeps at 9AM, wakes when the world is halfway through the workday “I sleep 12 hours just to pass time,” he told me ☕ The “BTO & Career” Gap When we meet the old clique for HDL or café hopping, the gap is obvious. We complain about promotions, CPF, BTO reno, weddings. Stressful, yes—but we’re building something. He just listens. Quiet. Detached. When people ask, “Bro, how’s life?” He replies, “Living the dream, lor.” But you can tell—he doesn’t believe it. 💰 The $10K Trap He makes around $6k–$10k a month. Sounds great—but it’s a trap. Enough to live comfortably → no urgency to change Not enough to truly level up → no real breakthrough He’s stuck in a strange middle ground: too comfortable to work, too limited to grow. 🏗️ Building Nothing Because he lives in a family-owned condo and doesn’t chase material things, there’s no push. And that’s the problem: No resume → a 2-year gap No new skills → just charts and trades No network → only online handles and avatars 🛑 The Real Fear It’s not the market he fears—it’s himself. “What if the bull market ends? What if my edge disappears? Who hires a 30-year-old with no experience and a 2-year gap?” That’s when it hits: He didn’t escape the system. He just traded one cage for another. Staring at screens, waiting for candles to move. 🎯 The Lesson Be careful what “freedom” you chase in your 20s. Without direction, freedom doesn’t feel like freedom. It becomes a slow, quiet trap. Money can come back. Time, structure, and ambition—much harder.